Tuesday I had made a list of the things I was planning
to accomplish for the evening. It was going to be my only night this week without a planned event and I was going to catch up on a lot of paperwork. Dinner was over and the dishes were done. My work and personal computer were lined up side by side on my desk, and I was ready to get down to business. With my Type A personality, nights like these actually motivate me at times. Remember, I am the list maker and this would be my night to check things off my list!
Without warning, “beep beep” went the smoke detectors. Paul came rushing into my office where I was burning a candle and said, “Do you have any more of these, looks like we will need quite a few tonight?”
Paul and I began to light candles throughout the house and he started a brilliant fire in the fireplace.
I managed to post on Facebook that God must want me to “be still” and cozy up next to that fireplace instead of working so hard. Tough job, but somebody had to do it!
I barely settled into my chair before my phone lit up. It was from one of my dearest friends in the world. She and her husband served with us on staff a few churches ago. They now live in South Carolina and we never get to see them. We hadn’t talked in almost a year but we picked up right where we left off before. We began talking and it lasted for over an hour. I really didn’t want it to end but I knew she had to go to work the next day, so I finally gave her a way out!
My friend is of those girlfriends that you raised your kiddos with, laughed with, cried with, trusted, and miss more than you realize! I feel so blessed to call her friend and “thank my God each time I remember her.” We talked about how busy our lives had become and how our children were now adults. We talked about how difficult it is to find those “be still” moments with lives going so many directions. As we hung up the phone I was saddened in a way, shame on me. Shame on me, for not adding a phone call to her to my list of things to do periodically.
God has been so gracious to place such wonderful friends in my life.
Why do I wait for the lights to go out to “be still” long enough for Him to remind me of my blessings? I am not waiting for the lights to go out before I talk to her again. I miss her way too much!
Philippians 1:3 New International Version (NIV) I thank my God every time I remember you.